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BDSM-Style Sex Toys That You Should Try

BDSM-Style Sex Toys That You Should Try

BDSM-Style Sex Toys That You Should Try

Although BDSM can sound intimidating and overwhelming, there are many ways to incorporate elements of bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism into your sex life.

The style and intensity of the BDSM practices you choose to experiment with can vary greatly, and there are many BDSM-style sex toys that you can try first to explore whether you would like to further your BDSM journey in the future.

Bed Restraint

Bed Restraint

If you want to upgrade a simple set of handcuffs, a full bed restraint can be the ideal choice for dominants and submissives to explore power play. This type of restraint system can be used to keep a submissive in a particular position, either for punishment or pleasure. Bed restraints make it easy to change positions throughout, which is why this is an option we would recommend to beginners as well as more experienced participants of BDSM.

Collar and Leash

Collar and Leash

A collar and leash can be an excellent way to start exploring power dynamics within your play. The submissive partner can be dominated in various ways, which may include the implementation of punishments for failing to follow established rules.

Bondage Bar

Bondage bars can be used to keep a submissive partner’s arms and/or legs in a certain position. This form of restraint is a step up from simple handcuffs and can further bondage play in a variety of ways, including forcing a submissive partner into a doggy-style position that they can’t escape from.

Forced Posture Harness

Similarly, forced posture harnesses can be used to keep a submissive partner in a particular position, often with their back arched and their head back. This type of harness is often designed to prevent the submissive partner from wriggling free, making it an excellent way to increase the intensity of your play once you become more familiar and comfortable with BDSM.

Whips and Floggers

Whips and Floggers

Floggers, paddles and whips can be used within sensory play, which is also often further enhanced with the use of a blindfold to heighten the submissive partner’s sense of anticipation. Different tools can be used to deliver various intensities of discomfort or pain depending on your preferences and the scene you are playing out.

Puppy Play Kits

For partners who want to explore dominance and submission through role play, puppy play kits will allow the submissive partner to explore their inner animal while the dominant partner has space to assert their authoritarian figure. A chew bone can restrict speech, a leash and collar will keep the submissive partner restrained, and a tail butt plug can allow the sub to explain their emotions to their dom through various movements. This play can also be heightened by using tape to bind a sub’s elbows and knees to influence the ways and extent to which they can move around.

Suspension Cuff

Suspension bondage can involve both fully suspending a partner from a ceiling or supporting frame, or partially using a sex swing. Suspension cuffs and bars can be used to keep the submissive partner’s body in a particular posture, which can heighten their sense of vulnerability and establish a feeling of objectification. Suspension play can also be extremely liberating and heighten the sense of trust between partners.

Forced Orgasm Toys

Withholding or administering forced orgasms can be used in various BDSM scenes, and forced orgasm toys can heighten this experience for both partners. Typically, a belt or harness system holds a wand massager in place to deliver wave after wave of intense orgasms. The submissive partner’s legs and arms will also be restrained, allowing the dominant access to all parts of their body.

Orgasm Denial Kits

Introducing a chastity belt into your play can allow a dominant partner to transform their submissive into an oral sex slave, which will establish that their sole purpose in the scene is to pleasure their dominant. A sense of humiliation can also be introduced into this type of scene by requiring the submissive partner to wear a face gag that forces them to deliver oral sex until the dominant is satisfied.

It is possible to incorporate a variety of different toys and accessories into your play to explore the various facets of BDSM. Whenever you're introducing a new toy into your bedroom, it is important that all parties provide their consent and that appropriate safety measures are taken in advance. Remember, your BDSM experience can be as tame or as intense as you want it to be; just ensure that you start slow and work up to some of the more intense practices over time.